Ginger, the problem with that Ashley bed you linked is that it is not 100% latex. It's two layers of latex on top of a PU foam base. A PU foam base will land you with the same problems you had with your earlier mattresses. You have to be very careful looking at descriptions to be sure what you are getting is 100% latex (if you decide to try that route).
Latex is foam, but it's not PU foam (made from petrochemicals), nor is it memory foam, which retains an impression when you press your hand (or body) into it.
Latex foam is made from the rubber tree and it's quite a different animal altogether.
I would steer away from this Ashley bed,because basically, they are jumping on the latex bandwagon and putting a few inches of latex on top of a cheap foam bottom. If you buy it, you'll be sorry.
I really think your choices are:
1) A HIGH quality Tempurpedic mattress (meaning Rhapsody model or higher) (not a wanna-be Tempurpedic memory foam mattress from a different manufacturer)
2) A HIGH quality latex mattress, made of 100% LATEX. Be wary of major manufacturers, such as one of the major S brand manufacturers, or a large furniture company such as Ashley. They do not carry the same quality 100% latex beds that the independents do. Instead they put a little latex on top of a cheap foam base, which will not last.
Latex mattresses are a small, but growing segment of the mattress industry in the US. It is difficult to find a real, 100% latex mattress in a showroom to try one out. I scoured my area before I found 2-3 places to try one out, and even then, I had to order online to get the best quality mattress.
The best latex mattresses are 100% latex, and the very best ones have a zippered mattress cover so that individual latex layers can be exchanged to suit your own needs and comfort level.
The latex mattress companies that get the most press on this forum are FLOBEDS and SLEEPEZ:
http://www.flobeds.com/
Flobeds has a 90 day trial period during which you can exchange layers or, if it just doesn't work out, return the whole thing.
http://www.sleepezbeds.com/
Sleepez has a trial period (I forget how long - 60 or 90 days) and you can do layer exchanges, but returns are subject to a restocking fee (last time I looked)
although some like SaavyRest:
http://www.savvyrest.com/
Not sure that returns are allowed at all on Savvy Rest.
You should look at these three companies to start, and also do a little research on the differences between Dunlop and Talalay latex. They are both latex, but the manufacturing methods are different. Some people prefer Dunlop latex, which (let me generalize here) tends to be denser and firmer - some people who like A LOT of support prefer these. Others prefer Talalay latex, which is less dense, and "springier." I'm personally in the Talalay latex camp and that's what my latex mattress is.
The latex beds from Costco and Sam's Club, which I linked earlier, are Dunlop latex mattresses. The Costco one is less expensive, but the latex is made in China, and the cover is not nearly as good as the cover on the Sam's Club mattress:
http://www.samsclub.com/shopping/navigate.do?dest=5&item=457139&pCatg=6805
http://www.costco.com/Browse/Product.aspx?Prodid=11503486&search=latex%20mattress&Mo=22&cm_re=1_en-_-Top_Left_Nav-_-Top_search&lang=en-US&Nr=P_CatalogName:BC&Sp=S&N=4001713&whse=BC&Dx=mode+matchallpartial&Ntk=Text_Search&Dr=P_CatalogName:BC&Ne=4000000&D=latex%20mattress&Ntt=latex%20mattress&No=6&Ntx=mode+matchallpartial&s=1&topnav=&Nty=1&s=1
As far as I know, no one on this forum has purchased the Sam's Club mattress yet, but several have purchased the Costco mattress and been very pleased. The queen latex bed from Costco is $1000, plus you'd need to buy a foundation, either from Costco or your local mattress store, for another few hundred dollars.
This message was modified Apr 15, 2010 by KimberlyH