Hello all, I am thinking it is time to buy a new mattress and like most people, really have no clue where to start. The bed i have now i have had for ten years, I am in it so much, watching tv, on comp, sleeping, that i have actually worn out the top. It is really soft, which i liked at first but now i feel no support. I dont sleep well, i have neck pain, ect. I know i sound like I am 90 years old but I am 28. Any suggestions would be appreciated. My friend got a Tempur-pedic and swears by it. I think i want something a little more firm. I sleep on my side or stomach. Thank you in advance.