What brought me to this site in the first place, is what I'm still reading from a lot of people. Just can't seem to get a bed that just let's me sleep, without pain.

 

I'm getting there, but not there yet. It's getting better at least after everything from traditional...to Tempur...to full Latex. Wife loves the Latex, me, I'm back on a firm traditional plotting my next topper, like sooo many.

No moral to the story, just watching people adjust.... and search.... and I hope it ends for all of us at some point. But then what would the conversation be??

That is true but many who have found their way through it, stop coming back when they find it.  Some will post once or twice and then go back to sleep.   That's where the search function comes in.   There is the reviews section but many of those are fake reviews by marketers IMHO.  I think you have to read for a while to see the successful ones.  Many of the them are DIY.  Here are a couple:

http://www.whatsthebest-mattress.com/forum/long-post-about-my-bedding-tribulations-final-relief-through-our-purchase-custom-sleep-design/24378-0-1.html

http://www.whatsthebest-mattress.com/forum/my-quest-new-mattress/16650-A-1.html

http://www.whatsthebest-mattress.com/forum/my-foambymail-diy-mattress-report-pictures/19412-0-1.html

http://www.whatsthebest-mattress.com/forum/my-review-foambymailcom-9-queen-100-latex-mattress-appearancequality-pics/25258-0-1.html

AchyJon wrote:

Just keep in mind a bed is only one part of the sleeping good equation.  In the laundry list of things to do to sleep better, it's barely a mention and falls under 'comfortable' category along with quiet, dark, cool room, no big meals or vigorous exercise within  several hours of bedtime, eat well, plenty of exercise, keep regular sleep hours, don't nap a lot during the day, reduce stress and worries, etc, etc....